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The Introvert’s Guide to College: Saying No to the Party
The weekend is a necessity for most of us, a break from the craziness of the work week. And the weekend means different things to all of us. Maybe you get to sleep in more or catch up on a TV show. However, for a lot of people, the end of the work week is the beginning of the party week.
Now, I think parties are fun, even as an introvert. As long as I have a few friends with me, I can make the large crowds work. But, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel pressured into joining the party when I would rather spend the weekend recharging after a long week. And sometimes that pressure can be hard to ignore.
While you should push yourself to be a part of social events and go out with friends, don’t be afraid to say no. I’ve been around people who are able to go out every single night on the weekend, and while the idea of it sounds fun, I know I would be exhausted by the end of it. So, I’ve learned to say no to invitations.
Something that’s hard to believe for some people is that though many people attend parties, many people also stay away from them. Throughout our college years, there will be hundreds of parties, but mental health should always come first. It’s okay to say no to the party.
Victorious is on Netflix now, so saying no is the better option anyway. 🙂
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7 Nashville Concerts Under $50 This Semester
*Prices may fluctuate, but these tickets will largely stay under $50
Conan Gray | The Comfort Crowd Tour OCT 30
Gray originally began as a young Youtube star and slowly built up his following releasing acoustic and electronic music. Just last year, he released his groundbreaking EP, Sunset Season. You can see him at the Cannery Ballroom for $46! Get Tickets Here
Gus Daperton | The Polly People Tour w/ Spencer NOV 2
Gus Daperton is an indie pop star known for his vibrant videos and ‘90s inspired fashion sense. He first broke ground with his single and viral video “I’m Just Snacking” in 2017. You can witness his first proper album, Where Polly People Go to Read, live at the Basement East for only $20! Get Tickets Here
Schoolboy Q | CrasH Tour NOV 8
Schoolboy Q is a conscious rapper that caught the attention of Kendrick Lamar and TDE (Top Dawg Entertainment) a little over ten years ago. Following his 2016 release of Blank Face LP and the worldwide success of THat Part, he’s back with his 2019 release CrasH Talk. You can see him at Nashville Municipal Auditorium for $32! Get Tickets Here
Big KRIT | From the South With Love Tour NOV 12
Big K.R.I.T., which stands “King Remembered in Time,” is a Southern rapper and producer from Mississippi. His sound has been compared to the likes of UGK and Scarface. You can see him at the Marathon Music Works for $39!Get Tickets Here
Mac Ayres | The Juicebox North American Tour NOV 19
Ayres is a self taught musician and producer who is most known for his underground hit “Easy.” While only 22, he has increasingly received attention from major music blogs and music services. If you want to hear his 2019 record Juicebox, you can see him at The Exin In for as low as $13!Get Tickets Here
Willow and Jaden | The Willow and Erys Tour NOV 20
Earlier this year both Willow and Jaden Smith graced us with albums: Willow’s self titled Willow and Jaden’s ERYS, successor to SYRE. Jaden’s alternative rap sound will beautifully compliment Willow’s experimental pop sound. You can see the Smiths for $35.50 at the Mercy Lounge. Get tickets Here
Ariana Grande | Sweetener World Tour DEC 5
Ariana started out in film and has evolved to be the largest female pop artists today. After the devastating loss of her ex boyfriend Mac Miller, she oversaw two incredibly successful albums: “Thank You Next” and “Sweetener.” You can witness “Sweetener” live at the Bridgestone Arena for as little as $19! Get Tickets Here
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The Introvert’s Guide to College #1: The Elevator Ride
I cannot think of a place worse than an elevator for an introvert.
You and another person, less than five feet apart, the only sounds being your breathing, the beeps of the elevator, and that almost tangible feeling of expectation as each person waits for the other to say something first.
Luckily for us, we only have to take the elevator a thousand times a day.
Seriously though, pre-college me was content to stand in elevators in silence as I got to where I needed to go.
Maybe it’s the not so subtle way Vanderbilt tries to get us to socialize with each other or the openness of so many people across the campus, but elevator rides aren’t as daunting as they used to be. Even a smile and saying “hey” can be enough to ease that awkwardness that can sometimes pop up.
So maybe next time say no to the urge to look at everything but the person you’re in the elevator with and say hey instead.
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